Living the Archetype of Unsupported Male Midlife
This post comes from a place I’ve seen so many men being at. It's the first on a four-psrt series about male midlife crisis There’s a stage in life that rarely gets named, let alone witnessed: the midlife of men without elders, without guidance, without ritual. A stage where collapse isn’t hidden or medicated, but is instead the door into something larger — a form of initiation. Most men pass through this threshold in isolation. They often turn to masks, affairs, substances, or endless work, just to feel alive. They move through the motions of success, connection, and responsibility, all while something essential goes unacknowledged: the need to be held, seen, and guided during the cracks, the doubt, the quiet unraveling. The Listening Room HQ is built for that space. It’s a place where men can meet themselves without performance or pretense. Where creative practice, attention, and presence allow a collapse to be recognized as sacred rather than pathological. Where the missin...